Salama sister! I am 15 now and I'm really trying to pray... everytime i
start to pray something happens and i stopped. And when i pray example
fajr and duhr i won't pray asr and the rest of the prayers. Please help
me find a way to pray forever!
Wa alaikum salam ♥
It all comes down to self-discipline and your Fear of Allah SWT and the afterlife ♥ You seem sincere so Insha’Allah you will get there, Ameen ♥
When you start making Salah (and you haven’t been praying for a long
while) it probably will be a little difficult at first, but it becomes
easier as time goes on Insha’Allah ♥
If you keep at it, you will find it becoming more easier in a short while Insha’Allah ♥
According to a hadeeth narrated by Mu’aadh ibn Jabal (may Allaah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Shall I not tell you of the head of the whole matter and its pillar and top?” I [Mu’aadh] said, “Yes, O Messenger of Allaah.” He said, “The head of the matter is Islam, its pillar is prayer and its top is jihad.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2616; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 2110.)
According to a hadeeth narrated by Mu’aadh ibn Jabal (may Allaah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Shall I not tell you of the head of the whole matter and its pillar and top?” I [Mu’aadh] said, “Yes, O Messenger of Allaah.” He said, “The head of the matter is Islam, its pillar is prayer and its top is jihad.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2616; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 2110.)
Without a pillar, the head will fall. Therefore, if we do not pray,
it is like our “Islam” falls, May Allah Protect us all, Ameen. Always remember how important it is to pray, and when the times come to pray, you will do it Insha’Allah ♥
It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be
pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “Between a man and shirk [associating others
with Allaah] and kufr [disbelief] there stands his giving up prayer.” (Narrated by Muslim, 82)
If you have your family living with you who pray, then when they get
up to pray, you should ask them to force you up and you all should pray
together ♥ This will help you pray more often.
Whenever the prayer times come in, just force yourself up ♥ prayer brings happiness and tranquillity and Allah SWT forgives us when we pray ♥ when you realize this and accept it into your life, you will be excited and run to make salah and feel joy whenever you do, Insha’Allah ♥
Whenever the prayer times come in, just force yourself up ♥ prayer brings happiness and tranquillity and Allah SWT forgives us when we pray ♥ when you realize this and accept it into your life, you will be excited and run to make salah and feel joy whenever you do, Insha’Allah ♥
Have a prayer time alert on your phone or radio, if there is no
Adthaan heard in the area you live in ♥ This will alert you of the
prayer times, and therefore you have no excuse not to pray ♥
Make-up all the prayers you miss, this way you will find it easier to pray it all on time ♥ and therefore you will be motivated to pray it on time because it is easier and has more barakah then it is to miss prayers and have to make them up.
“So woe unto those performers of Salaah (prayers) (hypocrites), those who delay their Salaah (prayer from their stated fixed times)”
Quran (107:4-5)
Salah is a blessing to mankind, not a hardship ♥ It is an enjoyment and not a burden ♥ it is a relief and forgiveness, not a hardship ♥
Love your salah ♥ because it is something to be loved, enjoyed, cherished and protected ♥
Insha’Allah ♥
Before you start praying, stand on your Musala and take a few seconds to breathe and just sit ♥ prepare yourself mentally, physically and spiritually and breathe and feel calm wash over you Insha’Allah ♥ and then pray ♥ don’t just rush into praying and rush out of it ♥ when you take a few deep breaths for a few seconds before you start praying, you will see the beautiful difference it makes to your salah, Insha’Allah ♥
If you rush your salah, you will make rushing your salah a habit; and your mind will register salah as something that needs to be rushed, and this is not good as you will never enjoy it and it will become a burden and barakah will be lost, May Allah SWT protect us all ♥ When we go into salah with a humble and relaxed frame of mind, we will pray in a relaxed and humble frame of mind and Allah SWT increases our tranquillity, emaan and blesses us in every aspect in our life, Insha’Allah Ameen ♥
Just by praying, we become wiser, our emaan increases, we gain control over ourselves, Allah SWT blesses our life and answers our Du’as and Allah SWT opens our hearts, forgives our sins and accepts us into Jannah ♥ Insha’Allah ♥ the list of benefits we experience and gain just by salah is a list that goes on forever, Ya Rub ♥ Insha’Allah I have answered your question ♥
If you do not understand something or would like additional details, please let me know and I will be happy to provide, Insha’Allah ♥
Thank you for your amazing question ♥
Make-up all the prayers you miss, this way you will find it easier to pray it all on time ♥ and therefore you will be motivated to pray it on time because it is easier and has more barakah then it is to miss prayers and have to make them up.
“So woe unto those performers of Salaah (prayers) (hypocrites), those who delay their Salaah (prayer from their stated fixed times)”
Quran (107:4-5)
Salah is a blessing to mankind, not a hardship ♥ It is an enjoyment and not a burden ♥ it is a relief and forgiveness, not a hardship ♥
Love your salah ♥ because it is something to be loved, enjoyed, cherished and protected ♥
Insha’Allah ♥
Before you start praying, stand on your Musala and take a few seconds to breathe and just sit ♥ prepare yourself mentally, physically and spiritually and breathe and feel calm wash over you Insha’Allah ♥ and then pray ♥ don’t just rush into praying and rush out of it ♥ when you take a few deep breaths for a few seconds before you start praying, you will see the beautiful difference it makes to your salah, Insha’Allah ♥
If you rush your salah, you will make rushing your salah a habit; and your mind will register salah as something that needs to be rushed, and this is not good as you will never enjoy it and it will become a burden and barakah will be lost, May Allah SWT protect us all ♥ When we go into salah with a humble and relaxed frame of mind, we will pray in a relaxed and humble frame of mind and Allah SWT increases our tranquillity, emaan and blesses us in every aspect in our life, Insha’Allah Ameen ♥
Just by praying, we become wiser, our emaan increases, we gain control over ourselves, Allah SWT blesses our life and answers our Du’as and Allah SWT opens our hearts, forgives our sins and accepts us into Jannah ♥ Insha’Allah ♥ the list of benefits we experience and gain just by salah is a list that goes on forever, Ya Rub ♥ Insha’Allah I have answered your question ♥
If you do not understand something or would like additional details, please let me know and I will be happy to provide, Insha’Allah ♥
Thank you for your amazing question ♥