Is it halal or not to like someone without marrying ?
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh ♥
It is not wrong to like someone, as long as you do not indulge in haram activities because of that emotion. One needs to learn self-restraint ♥
It is not haram to have feelings or emotions, but how we react and what we do with those feelings and emotions, makes it haram. Sometimes something negative like anger can turn into a good deed if we do not act aggressively on it. If someone makes us angry (that is their wrong not ours) and we are patient and kind throughout the anger, it is a good deed, not bad ♥
The Prophet once asked his Companions, “Whom among you do you consider a strong man?” They replied, “The one who can defeat so-and-so in a wrestling contest.” He said, “That is not so; a strong man is the one who can control himself when he is angry”.
(Saheeh Al-Bukhari, Saheeh Muslim)
Whereas if we don’t control the emotion of anger, and we react to it aggressively, then the action is a sin.
It is not wrong to like someone, as long as you do not indulge in haram activities because of that emotion. One needs to learn self-restraint ♥
It is not haram to have feelings or emotions, but how we react and what we do with those feelings and emotions, makes it haram. Sometimes something negative like anger can turn into a good deed if we do not act aggressively on it. If someone makes us angry (that is their wrong not ours) and we are patient and kind throughout the anger, it is a good deed, not bad ♥
The Prophet once asked his Companions, “Whom among you do you consider a strong man?” They replied, “The one who can defeat so-and-so in a wrestling contest.” He said, “That is not so; a strong man is the one who can control himself when he is angry”.
(Saheeh Al-Bukhari, Saheeh Muslim)
Whereas if we don’t control the emotion of anger, and we react to it aggressively, then the action is a sin.
“…[cont]… Allah loveth not aggressors.”
Quran (2:190)
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Halal & Haram