Today I decide to share you my
thought about online relationships created in the Islamic believes, the
question here could we create successful relationship lead to marriage in the
future?
In my opinion I think yes we could create this relationship, now many of you
asking why I think that and how we could do such a relationship, I will answer
you in the few coming lines below.
Trust , trust and trust , its small
word but mean a lot , many things are tightly to this word , it’s not easy to
create a trust or to have trust in any body , but it’s so easy to destroy this
trust , one of the most characters should be in online relationship or any
relationship is trust , to make someone trust you not easy and need time and
need a lot of things beside time , you must be honest , clear , and hearted
open.
Let’s face the fact that 90% of
those who want to marry online, want that for a reason, guys from Arabian and
Asian countries most of them want to marry form girls to just leave their
countries and live in united states of America or Europe, most of the girls who
want to marry from Europe want to marry also for a reason, some of them got
divorced some want a Muslim guy some looking for some special.
All
I said above is not wrong , all of you know that , so in my opinion its not
wrong to marry someone for a reason but this reason should be beside love , I
mean don’t marry someone just because of money because of visa , love must come
at first place then the others reasons.
Believe me my sisters and brothers, this one who make the world fantastic and amazing at first you should first be sure of what said to you, what make us fear that kind of relationship is those guys who just use the name for tricks and cheats.
With Islamic way you don’t have to
fall in love to marry , if you agree about the Islam of this body his religion
and if you agree about his manners and behavior , then you should agree to
marry , this what our prophet said.
In my opinion I think that true love
you know what I mean the real true love come after marriage, before marriage
it’s just a short time you get to know this person, to know his religion and to
know his manners, but to make this short time long time and you think that love
will come … no this is not true you can test your love by facing problems
together then you will know how much love you have.
I
guess no one wants to live without love , yes we all want love in our life , but
love of Allah and his prophet much come first , then Allah will send us the
right and true love , that will have it in life and will have it in heaven in shaa
Allah .
In
the end dear brothers and sisters , remind us in your prayers and always know
that Allah plans is better than any plans , and trust in Allah timing and
remind halal and get away from haram ,
may Allah send you love and blessing…
Amen