Successful Relationship Leads To Marriage

Today I decide to share you my thought about online relationships created in the Islamic believes, the question here could we create successful relationship lead to marriage in the future?

In my opinion I think yes we could create this relationship, now many of you asking why I think that and how we could do such a relationship, I will answer you in the few coming lines below.

Trust , trust and trust , its small word but mean a lot , many things are tightly to this word , it’s not easy to create a trust or to have trust in any body , but it’s so easy to destroy this trust , one of the most characters should be in online relationship or any relationship is trust , to make someone trust you not easy and need time and need a lot of things beside time , you must be honest , clear , and hearted open.

Why I have to be honest in such relationship , friends we are online , means that anything is possible , it’s possible to get cheated it’s possible to fall in love , it’s possible to lie on someone , everything possible , if you will not be honest to this one you want to spend your all life with , so to whom you will be honest , and if you don’t want to be honest , so you don’t want a real and true relationship beside trust we need to be honest all the time.

Let’s face the fact that 90% of those who want to marry online, want that for a reason, guys from Arabian and Asian countries most of them want to marry form girls to just leave their countries and live in united states of America or Europe, most of the girls who want to marry from Europe want to marry also for a reason, some of them got divorced some want a Muslim guy some looking for some special.

All I said above is not wrong , all of you know that , so in my opinion its not wrong to marry someone for a reason but this reason should be beside love , I mean don’t marry someone just because of money because of visa , love must come at first place then the others reasons.

Believe me my sisters and brothers, this one who make the world fantastic and amazing at first you should first be sure of what said to you, what make us fear that kind of relationship is those guys who just use the name for tricks and cheats.

With Islamic way you don’t have to fall in love to marry , if you agree about the Islam of this body his religion and if you agree about his manners and behavior , then you should agree to marry , this what our prophet said.

In my opinion I think that true love you know what I mean the real true love come after marriage, before marriage it’s just a short time you get to know this person, to know his religion and to know his manners, but to make this short time long time and you think that love will come … no this is not true you can test your love by facing problems together then you will know how much love you have.

I guess no one wants to live without love , yes we all want love in our life , but love of Allah and his prophet much come first , then Allah will send us the right and true love , that will have it in life and will have it in heaven in shaa Allah .

In the end dear brothers and sisters , remind us in your prayers and always know that Allah plans is better than any plans , and trust in Allah timing and remind halal  and get away from haram , may Allah  send you love and blessing… Amen