Today I saw something wired specially in my city , I know
that some girls in other cities wear
strange , tight and non Muslims cloths , I
can’t do something , I just pray for
them with my heart that Allah guide them and all Muslim girls .
I saw a girl wearing so tight cloths and then saw another one
wear so tight cloths without hijab , back in time there were no such things , so
directly it came’s in my mind
why this happen we should be in our way to improve our Islam and improve our Islamic knowledge at the same
time acting with what Islam behavior asks us.
Many of you are asking why I looked , AL Hamduallah
when my sight came to her I turn on my head feeling shame, I did that
but sometimes like a human I might get so weak and keep looking , and
also others might fall into that , in the fact some guys were already
talking about her.
Let’s ask ourselves when this girl did that decided to wear tight clothes , did she put in her mind when she wear those tight clothes , how many guys will make sins just by looking at her , did she but in her mind that by doing that she make our might lord the great Allah angry from her .
I don’t feel shy when I talked with my sisters about what I
saw today in way to home , and take this as an excuse to explain to them the world destiny ( nasieb)
, I feel so sorry when I say that some girls in our Islamic society think that
when they let others watch their charms by wearing tight or short cloths , by
this they telling others who liked them ( I am beautiful come and marry me ) so
sorry to say that really happen in our Islamic society not just in my town or
my countries but almost in all the Islamic countries , not all of our Muslim
sisters do that but some of them do that .
Before women ask men for their right they have to understand their
rights , women are Priceless , women are wonderful things in our life, they have to understand that they are not Goods
men sell and buy , no they are queens in this world , this is the true place
that Allah put women in it.
Talking about those who offer their selves like goods, I told my sister so
simple example, when we go to buy something we watch it in many stores, and
then we go to trusted store and buy new one unopened one, so when men watch you
in the streets in a respected way believe me they just watch you but when they
want to marry they will find some respected Islamic girl so be that one.
Finally I told my sisters few steps to put in their mind
about love and marriage.
- First of all we should know that everything in the hands of Allah.
- We have to trust Allah and trust Allah choice.
- Good men are for good women; this is what Allah says in his Quran.
- We should trust Allah timing and never hurry for anything because Allah know the best for us.
- Love could start before marriage but the true love starts after the marriage.The good intention for love to ask for you from your walli (father)
In the end I wish that all of you find their true love and the right
partners the one who will share everything with you happy and sad moments good
and bad times, and in shaa Allah take you to our lord Allah heaven